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Awkward Silence

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

time wasting

It truly is all in the eyes of the beholder. I was at a business meeting and the leader of the team went on and on about a personal issue with a belligerent intern. She couldn’t believe someone so far down on the pecking order would act as if he was the CEO of the company.


Whenever the meeting was redirected back to real issues something triggered her upset and again she was off and running. The drama of the non-situation was causing squirming and eye rolling.

 
Have you ever been in a meeting like that? Everyone is frustrated and yet no one will say anything. If “time is money” this meeting was hemorrhaging into a negative financial situation.

 

Here is what finally happened. Someone familiar with patterns took the bull by the horns and said “Hey, this intern stuff would make a great sitcom; maybe we could sell it to Saturday Night Live”. That’s when the awkward silence settled over the room. No one knew where to go with his comment.

 
Did you ever count the forever seconds when silence covers a room like a thick fog on a sultry summer night? It felt like seven days before this same guy said “Look, we all have people issues, it comes with being in business. I hoped to break the drama with what I have learned is a “pattern interrupt”, that is saying something that is like throwing ice water, you know like a shock to the system to see things differently. So, how did I do?”

 

 

Awkward silence again.

 
Why is it so hard for most of us to tell the truth? What would have been in the way for someone to say early on “I know how upset you are with this intern so let’s take a few minutes to listen and maybe we can all come up with a few good suggestions for you”.

 
When truth enters the room awkward silences run for the hills.

Do leaders play short stop, as a corner outfielder or both?

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Leadership Success

As I was growing up, I always loved sitting down and watching baseball with my father. It is considered to be the all-American pastime. It was not only a favorite pastime of mine to be able to spend time with my father, but I was in awe of the sport itself and the amazing structure of discipline needed from all of the players and coaches involved.  At the time, it was unfathomable to me to understand how all of the team members worked together to accomplish such an amazing feat of winning a game.  Every team member had to have a time, a place, a position, a process, or a call, etc., and know and understand the coaches’ expectations, in order for the game to be played effectively.

Baseball not only brings people together, but it can be played in empty lots, or in organized teams, it can be played by all ages, and you can play whether you are an amateur or a professional.  Much like that of the organization in which you work, you should feel comfortable playing the game in any area of your business, whether you are good at it or not, and no matter what age.  With the help of your leadership skills, your colleagues should feel the same, as well.  But I often ask myself whether, as a leader, am I playing short stop, or playing in the outfield?  What does this mean to me and my business and why?

If you think about the short stop position, the person in this position must be the most agile person on the team.  Not only do they cover multiple other positions within the infield, but they must have the strongest arm on the team in order to be able to throw a far distance to make other players get out at first base.  They also must be the cut-off man to any of the other positions that play around him, or behind him.  A short stop position must have fielding prowess because you never know what type of ball, fast or slow, or how high or low, you are going to need to catch.  You never know who you will be throwing to, or how quickly you will need to throw the ball back!

As an outfielder, you catch the longest driven and highest balls hit to you.  They typically play behind the six other positions within the infield.  Sometimes, they are considered to be the slower and less defensive of the other players.  However, they too, must also have a strong throwing arm in order to get the ball back in the field for the play to continue.  Many of the best power hitters in baseball play in the outfield, where they do not have as constant involvement in fielding plays as other positions.

Although both positions are both important to the organization of the sport itself, one position is looked at as stronger than the other; that is the short stop position.  As a leader, are you playing short stop in your organization and catching all of the issues first, and succeeding by dampening the concerns with your resolutions?  If I am a leader, I must be active and engaging in every department.  I must be alert as to what is going on in all areas of my organization/business, not just my own area/department.  I must be athletic enough to overcome any situation that comes my way.  I have to be buoyant enough to bounce back from tough situations, and clever and dexterous enough to come up with a plan of action that can be executed in a quick and timely manner.  As a “short stop” leader, I have to be easy-going as much as possible, yet energetic and positive at all times.  Never let them see you sweat, right?  If I am not prompt at handling what is to come, and quick enough to determine what is needed to accomplish a specific task to enable my team to work more effectively and productively, then we will not win  the game.  With this being said, a short stop leader must be vigorous, swift, and sharp enough to handle situations promptly and to continue showing their leadership skills vivaciously enough to win the game at all times.

If all of the situations that occur in my business are constantly being diverted to my outfield, then I may be a power hitter to bounce back from the situation after numerous attempts to make the situation better, but I may not always win the play due to being less defensive and as supple as I need to be.  If I want to constantly try and catch my problems after they have passed numerous other players on my team, then can I actually lead with the quickest and most defensive strategy that is needed to make my business happen?  Although I do need to play in this position, in order to know how my team works and to understand the dynamics behind the plays that are thrown my way, I feel as if a leader needs to have the attributes of the short stop position to be able to stand as a dynamic leader.

Stand back and look at your team and how each person affects the drive and success of your business.  Then take a look at your leadership style and how you fit into the “field”.  Do you look at issues and attack them quickly and are you steadfast in your approach?  Or do you delegate all issues and concerns to someone else in a position that does not have the drive or stamina to handle the issue as successfully as you would?  Do you play as a “short stop” leader, or as a “corner outfielder” leader? Or do you consider yourself to be the only player and you play all positions at all times?  If you do not play either position as a leader who plays in these positions on your team and who do you rely on the most?  People look for meaning and purpose in their life and work in order to find fulfillment. Without a clear purpose we wander from position to position trying to find the right fit. Most people place more value on meaning and significance than they do on pay and benefits. Consider this, I have read over and over again that there tends to be a greater number of people who leave their jobs because of poor leadership.

The above guest post was written by Teresa Uranga-MSSL, MS Ed.

Born and raised in Tampa, FL and moved to the Orlando, FL area when I first moved away from home to pursue my pathway to adulthood and college.  I attended the University of Central Florida for what seemed to be an interminable five years.  My dream, or what I thought was my dream, was to become a Speech Pathologist within the public school system.  My mother/coach/mentor/best friend has been a teacher for 36+ years.  Her biggest complaint was about the children who had numerous speech impediments and learning disabilities towards comprehension, which led to many conversations about whole school curriculum pros and cons.  So, there I was; on my martyr path to correct this issue within the school system.  And then I hit the college sophomore brick wall.  I had to try and live like an adult, pay bills, live on my own, and try and make ends meet in all other ways.  So how was I going to do this, when the brick wall was telling me otherwise?

I went back to school and obtained two Master degrees one in Strategic Leadership and the other in Training and Performance Improvement.  I am also going back to school currently to obtain a Post Masters Certificate in Teaching and Instruction and pursuing my Return on Investment Certification through the ROI Institute.

I started my own business as a Training and Performance Consultant for small start-up businesses, and driving their owners/managers to understand which employee should be hired and placed in which position, not based on what they want to do, but truly what they are good at doing based on their internal strengths that drive them.

When I am not consulting, I am usually networking, researching and writing.

Often I think that few people can relate to my obsessive-compulsive attention to detail (my intense desire to want to continue to learn and drive others to do the same, at all times), but put simply: I enjoy learning.

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Pay It Forward Leadership

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

Everyone loves to be in the presence of charismatic people. They are lots of fun and there is always a hope that the magic they have will rub off just by being with them. Yet, underneath the charm is often a bloated ego that leaves little room for others to grow and lead. The following article is food for thought so please respond to my answer. Do you or did you have a boss who gets “antsy” if you or anyone else wants to steal the spotlight? I’d love to use your answers for a new book (not yet titled) about the downside of working with super stars.

Is Your Ego Getting in the Way of Your Business? By John Warrillow writer and contributor to BNet.

It feels good to solve customers’ problems. They shower you with praise, and you get the satisfaction of feeling needed.The ego boost can be addictive — I know it was for me.

The problem is, the more your customers need you and ask for you personally, the harder it is to grow your business, and — in the long run — the less valuable your company will be.

In my consulting business, I found myself in the role of fixing clients’ problems personally. It felt good at the time, and it certainly paid well, but I soon realized I wasn’t building anything of long-term value.

I had to get out of the business of solving individual customers’ problems, but I found it hard to train others in what had taken me years to learn.

Intellectually, I knew I needed to document my experiences and coach others, but a little part of me still liked the ego boost of being someone’s savior — even if only for a minute or two.

If you’re having trouble growing your business, take a long, hard look in the mirror because your desire to feel needed may be what’s holding you back.

To read the full article, click here.

 

Leadership Lessons: Stop the Whining

Thursday, May 12th, 2011

Blah, blah, blah” was all they heard. Several team members came to me with a frustrated complaint. One of their co-workers never stopped complaining, and they meant NEVER.

He ragged on about ever task, about every sentence someone said, about the weather, the food, even the toilet paper in the men’s room.

MartyrWhat they were concerned about was how his whining and nay-saying were big de-motivators for everyone else. By the end of the day they were all beginning to see the glass as half empty too. It was like a virus was attacking their emotions and the gung ho attitude at the beginning of the day became like “dung ho” and they were shoveling poop rather than getting real work done.

Whiners are also martyrs who feel they are doing most of the work and getting no acknowledgement for their efforts. They mostly have a black cloud over their heads and every time they open their mouths the cloud shoots out a thunderstorm for dank, messy rain.

The whiners and martyrs were often children who were invisible at home. They had smarter and more attractive siblings and had to do something for attention so they cleaned up what no one else would do and resented it at the same time.

When living at work with these complaining types the best thing you can do is keep the conversation on solutions. Keep asking them how they would handle the various situations they complain about, what would be best possible practice be to get to the goal.

It will not work to complain to them about their complaining. Then you are just adding fuel to the fire. Keep your eyes on the goal and help them face in the direction of the future. Not always easy, yet results are attainable.
Remember they need to be included; that is their main M.O.

So, to help them move from the whining be strategic. If these martyr/whiners are given respect and attention little by little they can change their own behavior. Not a quick win, think long term.

Leadership Lessons: Pay Attention to Your Life

Wednesday, May 11th, 2011

Life happensThis is excellent blog to make us all think about who we are, what really matters and how to get there. It is the essence of Total Leadership Connections, our program for executives, high potentials and all in business who want more out of life than just financial success. Read this and give someone you know a hug, or roses, or at least appreciation for being in your life; you’ll feel better.

Why You Should Go Home Early

by: Jeff Haden writer on BNET

 

My client called me the night before he committed suicide.

Several days prior his business offices had been raided by investigators, and while he shared few details, he was desperately concerned about what would happen to him, his
employees, and his company.  The next morning, alone in a home he rarely visited, he shot himself.

I often wonder what he thought about in his last moments. Certainly he regretted some of the business decisions he had made.

Yet I feel certain he regretted personal choices he had made.  We had grown to be friends and he could at times be startlingly — even  uncomfortably, at least for me — frank.  He sometimes talked about how  he wanted a family and children he could spoil and cherish.  He talked  about finding friends who liked him for himself and not for his
connections or influence or money.

He talked about his wife who, years ago, had committed suicide and whether he without knowing bore some responsibility.

That’s why I think he thought mostly about choices; choices he desperately wished he had made differently.

If you knew you only had minutes left to live, what would you think  about?  You wouldn’t think about work or business.  It’s a cliche, but  true nonetheless:  No one on their deathbed regrets not spending enough  time at work.  Would you really think about money you never earned, or  projects you never completed, or companies you never started?  Would
those be your regrets?

Would those be the types of choices you would want back?

Of course not.  You would think about the people you love and how you would have spent more time with them.  You would have told them, over  and over, just how much they meant to you.  I think those are the  decisions he thought about in his last minutes.  At heart, regardless of mistakes he made, I think he was a good man.  Flawed, like all of us,
but still a good person.

I tried the best I could to express his love for family and friends  in his eulogy.  Still, I sometimes wish I could find a better, more  lasting way to honor his memory.

There is a way.  But I need your help.

Today, go home early.  Not tomorrow and not some other day.  Today.
At the latest, leave right on time.  Projects and contracts and  promotions and money and glory will be there waiting for you tomorrow.
Go home, find somewhere quiet, and sit with your spouse or significant  other and tell them how much they mean to you.  Set aside any baggage or resentment, take off any emotional armor you wear, think about why you  fell in love in the first place, and speak from your heart.

Then hang out with your kids.  Talk to them.  Praise them.  All your kids want is your attention.  Attention is the easiest and the best gift you can offer.

Or call a friend you’ve lost touch with.  Swallow your pride if necessary and reach out.  Take the first step.

Above all, live today differently.  Someday we will all probably wish we had made a few different choices along the way, but at least we  won’t wish to change anything about today.

I think my client — and more importantly, my friend — would like that.

 

Leadership Development and Staying True to Yourself

Thursday, May 5th, 2011

Coke, Soft DrinkWe all need to take the time to decide what we value and how we want to live our lives. Today I am in the last day of our four session Total Leadership Connections that started last November. I must say it is with great appreciation that I listen to the individuals who are taking their leadership skills to a next level. Many are at the top of their organizations, yet, still willing to peel away layers of old beliefs to be the best they can be. It is in their honor that I would like you to look at the blog about Coca Cola and let me know what you would do.

 

Coca Cola’s Anniversary: Why I’m Not Celebrating

 

by: Michael F. Jacobson

Cue the music; the gauzy, soft-focus ads; and the focus-grouped fridge magnets: Coca-Cola turns 125 this week.
Coke has something of a 10-Year Plan, first floated in a chilly manifesto called “2020 Vision and Roadmap for Winning Together” — a doubling of Coca-Cola’s global revenue by 2020, which says, “We are creating new strategies that are winning over a massive new generation of teens to drive growth of Trademark Coca-Cola.”

I think what that means is: “We want to sell more Coke to more kids more often everywhere in theworld.” And that would be a public health disaster.

Besides carbonated water, Coca-Cola’s main ingredient is high-fructose corn syrup. While no better or worse than regular sugar, that ingredient promotes weight gain and weight gain’s offspring: obesity, diabetes, and heart disease. Soda’s next ingredient is caramel coloring, which despite the name has little to do with caramel as you know it. Produced with ammonia and sulfites, industrial “caramel coloring” is contaminated with two carcinogens, 4-methylimidazole and 2-methylimidazole. Phosphoric acid erodes tooth enamel. Caffeine is a mildly addictive drug, making the concoction mildly habit forming. And, despite the efforts of dissenting shareholders, Coke cans are lined with the controversial, endocrine-disrupting chemical bisphenol-A. It’s as if this drink were specifically engineered to promote health problems.

Of course, back in the late 1800s when morphine-addled pharmacist John Stith Pemberton invented the syrup that combines with carbonated water to make Coca-Cola, he had no idea that his concoction would become what it is today. According to the sanitized mythology on Coca-Cola.com, in its first year on sale at an Atlanta soda fountain, sales averaged just nine glasses a day.

Today, “liquid candy” — non-diet carbonated soft drinks — is the single largest source of American calories, providing about 7 percent of calories. According to our most recent report, the average 13- to 18-year-old boy drinks about two 12-ounce cans of soda per day; girls of the same age drink the equivalent of one-and-a-third cans per day. Fortunately, despite the hundreds of millions of dollars Coke spends on marketing in the United States, consumption is declining. In fact, per capita sales of Coca-Cola itself have declined by 30 percent since 1998. That’s one of the best bits of health news around.

Thanks to many decades of sunny television advertising Coca-Cola conjures up warm and fuzzy feelings among many Americans. But I hope that in observance of this anniversary,
policymakers and parents do everything they can to drive Coke consumption down even further. Instead of doubling soda sales, let’s commit to cutting soda consumption far more by 2020. That would be a milestone worth celebrating.

Follow Michael F. Jacobson on Twitter: www.twitter.com/CSPI

 

Leadership Development: When it’s Easier to Ignore

Thursday, April 28th, 2011

I have to go to court. That is a rarity for me. Long ago when I worked in the field of child abuse I was called to testify as an expert witness. The courtroom is never a pleasant place; it has to do with winners and losers. My work is about how to find that sweet spot of connections and collaboration, no matter how contentious a situation may seem.

However, I feel strongly that when we give our word it is binding and we need to live up to contracts. The dictum is to say what we mean and do what we say.

I am going to court because a client (in over 30 years this is new for me) has stiffed me on paying for services rendered. I have called, sent notes, sent emails, and now it is time for action.

What is so fascinating is that this case has gotten some attention in the news and while all I have said is “I believe what I teach in our Total Leadership Connections program, that we are all accountable for our word.” That’s it. I have said nothing more.

I have received several dozen emails thanking me for what I am doing. These responses are from individuals I have never met. That is the power of the web to connect. The theme of the response has been “Thank you for doing this; just because someone has been in the news does not make them above the law.”

I have also been thanked for the simple statement of accountability, one that many of the email responders suggests is lacking in our world.

My program, Total Leadership Connections and book “Don’t Bring It to Work” are based on universal principles about relationships. I do believe that when we think about our actions and do not render others invisible (done to me by the constant ignoring of the bill) we show up at a level of leadership that truly matters. The court case is soon. It is not one of my favorite things to occupy my time, yet it is important for me to stand and be counted. I do this for myself and appreciate those who have encouraged me in this frustrating legal dispute.

Can We Coach Stress Away?

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

Here is an excellent article that shows how “over the top stress” is in today’s workplace and how it can be tamed to create a better work force. At CEO we have experienced coaches who can help your employees learn to “practice safe stress”.  For more information visit Creative Energy Options or email MaryJane@ceoptions.com

How an organization handles conflict is the foundation for co-operation, creative input and having a collegial attitude especially during a rough patch that will show up from time to time.

 

 

 

 

Coaching can help reduce workplace confrontation

Conflict hinders recruitment, productivity; ‘If you have a good coach and a committed employee, you can work on anything’

 

By DEREK SANKEY, Postmedia News; Calgary Herald April 9, 2011

 

How an organization handles conflict in the workplace can have huge consequences, including on the ability to attract and retain top talent at a time when long-term labor shortages are being forecasted as baby boomers retire, say coaches and conflict mediators.

The Conference Board of Canada predicts a shortage of nearly one million workers by 2020. “How your organization handles conflict could be a major factor in your quest to seek out and retain quality new hires,” says Marjorie Munro, co-director of the Alberta branch of the Workplace Fairness Institute.

The American Institute of Stress cites reports that occupational pressures are “far and away the leading source of stress for American adults and that these have steadily increased over the past few decades.”

Blaine Donais of the Workplace Fairness Institute has developed a “fairness cost analysis tool” that can be used to put a price tag on conflict. It’s one way to put a price on low employee engagement and start building a foundation to better manage conflict through a variety of mechanisms, including coaching.

Sue Lyons, senior consultant and coach with Work Life Insight in Calgary, says coaching can help effectively manage and resolve workplace conflict.

“The transfer of learning is so high, and it hits the target every time,” says Lyons. “If you have a good coach and a committed employee, you can work on anything.”

Since conflict usually arises out of a difference of values, coaching can help opposing sides to remove heated emotion and examine the real issues at play in any given conflict. “Coaching helps employees deal with the conflict on the front line,” she says. “There’s no judgment and no politics in coaching.”

Facing the prospect of long-term labor shortages, experts advise companies to be aware of both the direct and indirect costs associated with conflict in the workplace and develop a comprehensive plan to improve the processes for managing it.

Direct costs include litigation, sick and stress leaves, sabotage, theft, hiring as employees leave and restructuring. Indirect costs include manager and human resources time, employee time, productivity costs and reputation costs.

“Costs are evident when managers spend increasing time resolving conflict with their employees; an employee shows a measurable drop in productivity, there is an increasing number of sick days or the water fountain gossip time becomes longer and longer,” says Munro.

A good conflict resolution system can include conflict coaching, training, peer mediation and even a conflict ombudsperson for the office. Donais’s fairness ranking can help companies identify where they need to improve and helps managers to see how deficiencies translate into recruitment challenges. “Your fairness ranking becomes a topic for discussion in the most compelling job interviews, and you are able to attract and retain employees because you know, and you can prove, that you treat them fairly,” says Munro.

While coaching is only one part of a good conflict management program, Lyons believes it will increasingly become ingrained into the corporate landscape.

“I see coaching shifting into an attraction and retention strategy that’s as big as health benefits.”

 

For more information on Executive Coaching visit Creative Energy Options or email maryjane@ceoptions.com

Leadership Lessons: From Ignorance to Knowledge

Thursday, March 24th, 2011

Everyone worth her or his weight in leading goes through lots of ups and downs (the downs seem way too often) in the leadership development growth journey to become fully realized individuals.

Kind of like playing Monopoly, except we don’t strategize for real estate, we have bigger goals in mind. Many of these goals are under the radar and we are not aware of them till we have to backtrack, spend time “in Jail” while other are moving with great determination and we cannot see progress for ourselves.

Once we jump on the leadership express we suddenly find the landscape is not what we expected. We separate from the traditional reality we know and are awakened to great truths. This is super uncomfortable territory for most of us; we have in no way been prepared for this in our educational system. All we know is success is meant to be a straight line from study to acing tests to getting excellent jobs with another straight line to the top of the pyramid. In other words, it is meant to be a smoother ride to owning Park Place.

One of the best contemporary movies to give us some guidelines on what to expect on the leadership journey is The Matrix. Get a copy and even if you have seen it watch it again. In these challenging days we all need to become more astute about what it means to lead, what is being asked of us, how the speed and confusion of changing landscapes (think Japan) impact our day to day lives.

Here is the quick synopsis: The matrix takes place in 1999, it really does seem a century ago. Thomas Anderson is a programmer for a software company by day and a computer hacker names Neo by night. Neo is obsessed, looking for a man named Morpheus who he believes can answer the question haunting him “What is the Matrix”? It is the question that we all strive to answer deep inside ourselves “What is reality”?

This is the question all leaders must ask themselves sooner or later to become the best they can be. It is at the core of all leadership development programs, yet is often left without being tackled because case studies and proper answers are required for recognition as one of the “smart ones”.

In Total Leadership Connections we have taken the road less traveled. We ask our participants to go on the Hero’s Journey. We believe that to be a leader of quality one must first be self-aware and even more importantly PATTERN-AWARE. That requires a deep understand on oneself and also a keen knowledge of how relationships work.

With becoming Pattern-Aware there is power and freedom. To become free, truly free you change yourself and the questions you ask as a leader. You are more interested in values and integrity than in merely the bottom line.

Leadership is a vital path that requires rigor and courage. Take the pattern-aware quiz at www.sylvialafair.com and call us for a free coaching session. Are you willing? Value-driven leadership is what the world needs now!!

Defrosting our Creative Energy

Thursday, March 10th, 2011

The following post gives some good ideas on how to get past blocks that keep us stuck in “Nuts, I can’t get the project moving”. Those who have been through Total Leadership Connections can attest that once the old, buried memories are surfaced and faced there is a lightness of being and way to get way beyond the “CANNOTDO’s” in a fast and smart way. Enjoy!

How to Overcome Creative Blocks and Distractions

By Herb Schaffner | March 7, 2011

You’re on your second cup of coffee, but you can’t get past the first sentence of your pitch to your boss.   Or, perhaps you’re struggling to meet deadlines because you’re so preoccupied with your son’s problems at school.

In a new book called Spark: How Creativity Works, author Julie Burstein-who is a producer of the radio show 360– reworks the radio show’s interviews with leading artists to shed light on how to make creative leaps and accomplishments happen. In a fascinating interview with BNET blogger Laura Vanderkam, Burstein elaborated on how artists get their ideas.   In addition to the book’s  insights about creative inspiration-Spark is also laced with useful tips on how to overcome blocks and distractions, even if you are not a so-called “creative.”

Some tips include:

  • Have a warm-up ritual. The hardest part for many can be just getting started. Rather than diving headlong into work, cellist Yo-Yo Ma takes a few minutes each morning to play long, slow notes on his cello he’s nicknamed Petunia. Writer Isabel Allende starts a new book every year on the same exact date even if the previous work is unfinished. That routine is her way of ensuring she always starts a new project.
  • Look for ideas in ordinary places. Stuck in a cubicle? There may be something on your desk, or down the hall, that could inspire your next great idea-if you look beyond the surface. Many artists find that even banal materials can be a potent source of inspiration. Sound designer Ben Burtt combined the hum of a projector at his night job with the feedback buzz of a broken microphone in his house to create the sound of the light sabers in the Star Wars films. Artist Richard Serra’s steel and rubber sculptures often begin with industrial materials he finds on his travels.
  • Discover the power of two. Partnering can make for big results. The key is to allow yourself to be challenged by your collaborator. Burstein notes that bluegrass icon Alison Krauss and ex-Led Zeppelin star Robert Plant made collaborative gold in their Grammy-winning partnership forRaising Sand.  How? They allowed themselves to be challenged by their partners, rather than defending their egos. Plant brought no pride of authorship: “I wanted to work with people who were going to push me, and…challenge my whole capacity to be a really proper singer.” Filmmaker Ang Lee and his partner James Schamus reveal a similar ambition to push boundaries- Schamus fearlessly immersed himself in Chinese culture to “create compelling stories” for many Lee films and both filmmakers had the guts to rewrite each other’s work while keeping their eyes on the prize at the end-a great film.
  • Use the negativity blocking your creativity. Many people have difficult family relationships-creative artists use painful memories or experiences to propel their work. Actress Patti LuPone, for instance, let go of some unhappiness with her mother through her Broadway performance as Gypsy Rose Lee. Screenwriter and director David Milch dealt with hard memories of his brilliant but violent and abusive father through dark portrayals of characters such as Sipowicz in NYPD Blue and Swearengen in Deadwood — flawed, foul-mouthed heroes with anger management issues. Are you fretting over your elderly mother or learning disabled child? Perhaps these situations can yield metaphors for a speech-or more compassion for a colleague.

Do you think you could use any of these tips to improve your work? Why, or why not?

Here is how I feel about the article above:

Good suggestions, especially the last one that fits with what I teach in Total Leadership Connections. If we go to the “dark memories” and resurface by writing a haiku poem, singing a song, or just journaling it begins to untie the “knots” that have turned to “nots” and often stifle creativity. And the best idea is to reconnect with the person behind the memories and actually start talking. I believe we all have so much more creative energy once we reignite the spark. Can’t wait to read Burstein’s book.