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MSNBC: BP CEO, Tony Hayward

Friday, July 30th, 2010
Villian Pattern

Hayward

When the going gets tough the tough do not go yachting! This article recapping (interesting use of the word!) what Tony Hayward said in the Wall Street Journal article shows a perfect example of a victim pattern of behavior. While the situation is dreadful, Hayward was unable to give us any faith that he was truly at the helm. Leadership development programs really need to put in modules that prepare a future CEO for looking at internal resources for creative and powerful leading through dark times.

BP CEO: I became a villain…

Tony Hayward, who resigned as chief executive of BP in the wake of the Gulf oil spill, has said that he was turned into “a villain for doing the right thing.”

In his first interview since deciding to step down, Hayward told the Wall Street Journal that he did everything possibleafter the Deepwater Horizon exploded, by taking responsibility for the spill and spending billions on the clean-up operation and efforts to stop the leak.

The newspaper said he was unrepentant about BP’s response to the spill and that he resented criticism from the Obama administration, although he also admitted that he “understood their frustration.”

“I became a villain for doing the right thing,” Hayward said in the interview. “But I understand that people find it easier to vilify an individual more than a company.

“I didn’t want to leave BP, because I love the company,” he added. “Because I love the company, I must leave BP.

“In America, the road back will be long but I believe achievable when the whole truth of the accident finally emerges and the Gulf Coast is restored. BP can rebuild faster in America without Tony Hayward as its CEO,” he continued.

Hayward, 53, also told the paper that some comments he had made — which earned him a reputation for being gaffe-prone — were “wrong,” particularly his infamous “I’d like my life back.”

However, some critics remained unimpressed.

“Mr. Hayward should be less concerned about his vindication, and more concerned about what BP will do to end the victimization of families and businesses in the Gulf,” Rep. Edward Markey told the Journal. “It will take years of continued commitment to the restoration of the Gulf before BP has the legitimacy to engage in historical revisionism.”

Richard Charter, senior policy adviser for maritime programs at conservation group Defenders of Wildlife, added: “No one in his right mind would characterize BP’s effort as successful.”

 

My Response to Article:

The true test of a leader comes when everything down and dirty hits the fan. In this respect Tony Hayward gets a failing grade. In the Wall Street Journal interview he sadly sounds like a victim, claiming he was turned into “a villain for doing the right thing“.

He misses the point totally. It was his “wimpy” manner of response that disappointed all of us watching oil fill up our beautiful ocean. The pattern of “victim” runs deep and victim responses are always laden with hand wringing and poor-me statements. In “Don’t Bring It to Work” the victim who grows and shows stamina transforms into the explorer; one who goes beyond the obvious to find innovative solutions, or at least sets the stage for these solutions to show up.

It is too soon to know all the details about how this messy accident was really handled. In the meantime we have seen yet again a well paid CEO crumble when the going is tough ; when the requirement is for personal strength and superb accountability.

Business Week: Your Leadership Portfolio

Monday, July 26th, 2010

Here is a thorough article for those who have technical skills and are transitioning into leadership settings. I was specifically struck by the part that talks about those in CIO positions being proactive change leaders. What was said rings true: “Proactive change leaders take actions to influence specific individuals, giving them parts to play in the change effort. They engage with people throughout the change process, addressing emotional reactions and maintaining commitment.”

My value add is that it is critical for these proactive change leaders to understand the behavior patterns that lie underneath the emotional reactions. This does not mean leaders need to become depth coaches or see themselves as therapists (that is an old model of thinking). What they need to do is ask open ended questions and find out how their direct reports have responded to change in the past. That is the clue to helping move things forward in a positive way.

In “Don’t Bring It to Work” the 13 most common behavior patterns in the workplace are discussed. There is even a quiz you can take at www.sylvialafair.com to observe your patterns and have your employees take the quiz. It is a great eye opener for the emotional areas of change that will show up whether we want them to or not.

Article: Your Leadership Portfolio: The View from C-Level

Former senior IT leaders who rise to head of the function are often surprised by the competencies that they are expected to have at the C-level. As we discussed in the second installment in this series (“Your Leadership Portfolio: The Critical Move from Senior IT Leader to the C-Level,” May 28, 2010), the key competencies for senior IT leaders are Team Leadership, Collaboration & Influencing and People & Organization Development. These are largely people skills, requiring the ability to influence and lead high-performing teams. As the Leadership Competencies Development Journey graphic (below) indicates, the progression to IT Function Head CIO requires the individual to place a much greater emphasis on the development of broad business skills, underpinned by people skills.

Not surprisingly, many very capable IT leaders struggle to master this critical inflection point, which demands more active engagement outside the IT organization. They can prepare for this challenging transition by actively seeking opportunities to get hands-on business experience, while taking care not to derail their IT careers. Ideally, such experience would mean responsibility for a P&L, but it could mean taking responsibility for a business project and its budget, or participating as an equal partner–not just as an IT representative–on a committee focused on some key aspect of the business. They can also look for ways to collaborate more closely with business-unit heads, or other top business leaders, on market challenges. Then, when they step into the C-suite, they will be prepared for the vastly changed perspective it brings.

The Function Head CIO: Leveraging Where and How the Company Makes Money

What does a Function Head CIO really do? Instead of focusing primarily on the IT organization, as the Senior IT Leader does, the Function Head CIO must look out across the entire enterprise, work with C-level peers, and become an active and credible provider to the business. This change of perspective brings three critical competencies, and their associated behaviors, to the fore:

* Market Knowledge: This is about understanding where the company makes money. At the reactive performance level (shown on the y-axis of the Journey graphic), one may have only a general understanding of the company’s marketplace. But IT Function Head CIOs at the active level demonstrate a detailed understanding of the market, the competitors, the suppliers, and, where appropriate, the regulatory environment. At the proactive level, they identify market sub-segments and understand the profit potential of each.

Proactive performers look beyond the current environment and identify emerging trends and segments, understand how competitor actions affect competitive dynamics, and the implications for their company’s technology landscape. They use their detailed market knowledge to create innovative ways to engage and serve customers, partner with suppliers and blunt competitive threats. At the very highest level, which is rarely attained but is worth noting, the result can be new products or services that reshape the market.

* Commercial Orientation: This is about how the company makes money. At the reactive level, the individual understands the importance of commercial success, works toward financial goals, and understands how various functions contribute to profitability but may lack a thorough understanding of how to link activities to financial metrics. Active performers identify areas of the function that can contribute to profitability, and they act quickly on commercial opportunities. The proactive leader generates profit-making initiatives beyond their immediate area, drives commercial behavior throughout the organization, and finds new ways to maximize profitability from each step of the value chain. At the highest level of performance–again, rarely attained–the leader is able to create long-term advantage by reshaping the business model of the industry.

* Change Leadership: As the graphic indicates, competency in change leadership is also important at this stage and becomes even more critical for the Business Strategist CIO. Performers at the reactive level of Change Leadership tolerate change, while active change leaders are adept at advocating change and communicating a clear and compelling new direction. In pushing for change, they set clear targets that focus people and activities on achieving the change agenda and develop metrics that both monitor and motivate change.

Proactive change leaders take actions to influence specific individuals, giving them parts to play in the change effort. They engage with people throughout the change process, addressing emotional reactions and maintaining commitment. And they build coalitions of such people and create champions who then mobilize others. The even more proactive are also as at home with process as with people. They introduce high-impact actions such as redesigning organization structures, processes and systems to drive and reinforce the desired changes. In rare cases, that ability coupled with their relentless drive for renewal creates and embeds a culture of change that continually adapts to new and evolving markets.

The Transformational CIO: Bringing the Customer into Focus

Having proactively demonstrated Market Knowledge and Commercial Orientation, the Function Head CIO will be poised to take on the role of Transformational CIO with its additional demanding competency of External Customer Focus.

* Customer Focus: Many IT people are accustomed to thinking of customers inside the four walls of the company. But for the Transformational CIO, the focus widens to include the external customer. At the reactive level, Customer Focus is essentially order-taking, a stance the Transformational CIO will have moved far beyond. At the active level, Customer Focus is about actively digging into and understanding the customer’s needs, seeing services from the customer’s perspective, and identifying the unique key measures of success with a given customer. These behaviors are used internally by the outstanding IT Function Head CIO, but will be extended outward for the outstanding Transformational CIO.

At the proactive level, the benchmark behaviors include delivering improved customer offerings with win/win impact, developing best practices for working with the customer, and championing those best practices internally. The highly proactive Transformational CIO initiates and manages multiple contacts with the customer’s organization, creating impact far beyond individual transactions and in some cases becoming a trusted advisor to the customer and contributing to strategic discussions in the customer organization. In rare instances, the most accomplished Transformational CIO is able to partner with the customer to develop new supplier relationship models that can change industry dynamics and force competitors to follow or fall behind.

In the next installment in this series, we take an even deeper dive into this critical stage of the journey, the last stop before its culmination in the role of Business Strategist CIO.

Steve Kelner is a partner in the Boston office of Egon Zehnder International. He is a leader of the firm’s Leadership Strategy Services practice, specializing in management appraisals and team effectiveness. He can be reached at steve.kelner@ezi.net.

Chris Patrick is a partner in the Dallas office of Egon Zehnder International. He leads the Global CIO Practice. A former practicing CIO, he helps firms across all industries identify, assess and recruit top technology talent. He can be reached at chris.patrick@ezi.net.

Teaching Leadership

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

There has been a fascinating discussion going on for several weeks on the Leadership Think Tank Group on LinkedIn. The question is “If you could teach one thing to a young leader what would it be?”

There have been over 250 responses and the vast array of answers creates a composite of the myriad aspects of  leadership development. It does seem that the largest number of answers believe that leadership is an art and craft that can be learned.

One particular answer by Tom Tavares caught my attention. He talks about helping leaders with the vital skill of problem solving under pressure. He states “Based on 500 in-depth profiles of leaders in a wide variety of industries, 80% or more fall back on their own problem-solving skills when under pressure. Leaders start their careers as specialists and are strong problem-solvers. When pressure builds, fixing things themselves provides a sense of control.”

This is so true and is something we all need to consider when the going is tough. In “Don’t Bring It to Work” I talk about the fact that when stress hits the hot button we all tend to revert to patterns of behavior learned in our original organization, the family and that is what we bring into the workplace.

Think about how you coped under pressure when you were eight or ten or fourteen. Now, look at how you problem solve in your adult life at work? What are the common threads? this will help you find the way out to new and more effective behavior.

In the third session of our Total Leadership Connections program problem solving is a key theme. Participants have the opportunity to do a “Pep Talk” concerning a problem-solving issue of their choosing. They can decide to address a work issue or one closer to home. Pep Talk stands for “Pattern Encounter Process” and there is the opportunity to look at the long-term behavior patterns, the coping mechanisms that absolutely pop-up unconsciously when there is stress and anxiety.

What is amazing is how hard it is to see it on ourselves when we are in those stress-filled moments. We learned how to survive when we were kids. How do I know? Just look in the mirror; we’re still here. Trouble is what worked for us as youngsters is not always the best solution as an adult.

Think about it; did you take the fight or flight route? Many a young leader both takes the offensive and is a persecutor and finger pointer in getting through tough times. Others take the avoider route and figures everything will handle itself if I just wait long enough. Others become the victim, some the rescuers. There are the deniers who look a problem square in the face and say “No big deal”.

We can see so many of the patterned responses playing out in the tragedy of the BP oil fiasco. But wait, before you cast the first stone, look inside and think about your own leadership manner of working through tough times at work.

Back to Tom Tavares advice; he suggests leaders take the route of collaboration saying “one mind and many hands is less intelligent than many minds in solving problems from the outset.”  I agree that this can help stop the old patterned responses from taking over. Being able to use your leadership team in a cooperative manner and making sure there is openness to question decisions can lead to better and best decisions in the long run.

Teaching Leadership One Idea at a Time

Friday, June 25th, 2010

I have recently joined some Linked-In groups. I am not the best group joiner on the planet. I love dialogue and connecting, yet often find formal structures often feel too narrow for me. I guess the rebel pattern of wanting and needing lots of freedom to think what I want to think and stir up controversy still needs to be transformed into the community builder.

So, I joined about a dozen groups to practice my community building skills. Leadership development is dear to my heart so that was an easy one, then team building, women’s leadership, diversity, and change management.

I find I check the activity more frequently than I would have thought and find myself responding more frequently that I would have thought. I suggest to any of you rebel types reading this that joining an online group may well be the most effective way to harness the ‘there has to be a better way’ and ‘I’ll do it my way’ energy. Then you can change from the rebel need to be contentious to the community builder way of being cooperative.

One of the questions from the leadership group was what one idea would you want to teach new leaders. My response was about making sure that systems’ thinking is in place, the fact that no one wins unless we all do.

I am hoping some of my new friends will respond to my comment. It is actually more fun to be part of a community than to have to barge through in a rebellious way to get heard.

What’s in a “C”?

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

We have an incredible team of administrators from the Derry Township School District at an off site at The Country Place. They are all achievers of excellence, so when I suggested that this past year we have been working together was “the year of the C” a look of disappointment went around the room like a cloud hiding the sun.

I explained, it had been a year of the “See” and the “C“.

They have all been willing to look at how a high level administrative team can harness workplace conflict, master workplace relationships, tackle leadership dilemmas, be pioneers and visionaries in the field of education, build trustworthy relationships, and have enjoyable friendships all at the same time.

They all “see with new eyes” and embrace life long learning. The task now is to take the skills they have learned to the faculty, board, parents, and youngsters they are helping prepare for the rest of their lives.

Here is what is in a “C“:

Challenge: response to the call that “there is a better way”

Connect: learning that we are all in it together and no one wins unless we all do

Curiosity: Shaking things up to see what “new” looks like, sounds like, and feels like

Culture: exploring how a culture blossoms when risks are taken

Commit: understanding the power of an entire system willing to forge a new path

Communicate: working with the forces of choosing the right words to tell the truth

Cause: weaving education, including administrators, teachers, parents, children, community, and board into a well constructed tapestry

My barometer of hope is high. This team of pioneers is making a difference. As they explore their own self awareness and the power of pattern transformation they are taking leadership development and workplace relationships to a rarified realm of innovation and creative intent.

Leadership Strategies for the Next Five Years

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

A new study by IBM about leadership priorities offers important information. Coming out of a recession, or it may well have felt like a depression, depending on the specific challenges of your company there is usually a knee-jerk fear reaction.

This is not what the results indicate. Steven Tomasco, a manager at IBM Global Business Services was surprised to find that the three major qualities required for leaders and leadership development includes creativity, integrity, and global thinking.

He thought CEO’s would have reacted to the difficult economic times by ranking discipline, existing best practices, rigor, or operations as key areas for leadership focus.

All three main areas require some deep down inner awareness. In today’s world creativity comes from collaboration. Rarely is it a solo person who looks up and a light bulb shines brightly above his or her head. It is more of an “aha” moment that comes from a group of people working together and constantly saying to each other “what if we ….

Integrity is one of those amorphous concepts that need lots of clarification. It is at the core of inner awareness. The best definition of integrity I know is from anthropologist Gregory Bateson, “the ability to integrate all aspects of a situation“. That means to be cognizant of the impact that actions will have on others and also to consider consequences into the future.

Global thinking combines creativity and integrity in new ways. How do we, so conditioned to think about the boundaries between you and me, us and them, how do we integrate the complexities of this blue pearl of a planet and think about what is the core philosophy of Creative Energy Options, “we are all connected and no one wins unless we all do“.

The results of the study are powerful and positive. They indicate that we know, at a deep level, that we cannot go back to old ways of thinking. It is only with collaboration, self awareness, and connection that we can fill the mandate of  leadership for the 21st century.

Jay Steinfeld: How Empowering My Staff Powers My Business

Friday, May 7th, 2010

All workplace relationships include personal stories that are often buried under the stresses and strains of getting the job done. We then never get to know each other past a quick “hello” and “see you tomorrow”. When a situation occurs that is life changing it not only changes the individual or individuals involved, it can also change the entire organizational culture. Jay Steinfeld shows us the power that rests with individuals who are willing to become self aware, explore the connection between personal and professional life, and make changes that are deep and profound. The courage to change, a core of all leadership development, is written in his words and actions.

How Empowering My Staff Powers My Business

by Jay Steinfeld, as told to Jennifer Alsever

After running two Houston window blind stores for more than a decade, Jay Steinfeld and his wife and business partner moved most of the business to the Web in 1996, founding Blinds.com, now a $50 million business and the No. 1 seller of blinds online. Yet after his wife’s death in 2002, Steinfeld underwent a personal transformation that changed how he did business.

Blinds.com CEO Jay Steinfeld

Ten years ago, I wasn’t as nice of a guy as I am now. I seldom complimented anyone. I wanted everything done my particular way, and I reamed out people when they failed, even if they did 90 percent of the job right. Then my wife Naomi died in 2002. We were married for 26 years. She was my best friend and my partner in business. Naomi’s death devastated me, but it also woke me up. At that point, both my parents had died, I had three kids to raise and I had a business to run. I realized I could not do everything alone. 

A new mindset, just in time

I got counseling and poured myself into books on business and psychology. My favorites: “Good to Great” by Jim Collins and “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Victor Frankel. I realized my 70 employees weren’t my servants. I worked for them. They needed to be encouraged to take risks and empowered to do their jobs.

I sought out smart, top-level people for chief operating officer, chief marketing officer and chief technology officer so I could rely on them to develop their own departments. By giving them more leeway, I had more time to think about the future of the company, and we were all free to be more creative and come up with more ideas. I wanted them to seek continual improvement and experiment without fear of failure. I owe my company’s survival to that shift.

Boosting sales through brainstorming

Our company’s sales hit $50 million this year and profit went up 17 percent. But for the past two years, the market for window blinds has been in a tailspin. Dismal new home sales means dismal blinds sales. Two large regional blinds manufacturers recently filed for bankruptcy, numerous retailers closed their doors, and the industry’s sales are again down 25 percent this year. To grow, let alone survive, we knew we had to do something. But I didn’t take it on alone like I might have a decade ago. It had to be all of us innovating and trying new ideas.

Some of the risks we took were complete flops. One crazy idea that failed miserably was advertising on dry cleaning hangers. We tested three different messages, and each was worse than the other. We tried revamping the category pages on our website, spent a lot of time asking customers what they wanted, did internal focus groups, and went live showing the new page to half of our visitors, and the existing page to the other half. We saw zero change in sales.

Solving customer problems pays off

One of easiest ways to rev up innovation was simply thinking about our customer’s problems. What might prevent someone from buying blinds online? We figured out that customers get overwhelmed by the thought of measuring and installing blinds themselves, so we made about 65 two-minute videos that explicitly show how to measure and install blinds. My daughter, Esther, our PR manager, regularly searches Twitter for tweets about installing blinds. She responds with links to our videos. So far, the web pages on our site with videos bring in about 15 percent more revenue than the ones that do not.

We also spent $150,000 and six months building a widget that helps buyers who don’t know what they want. They answer questions such as if they have kids or pets and what’s more important to them, price or blocking out light. That tool gave us another 15 percent lift to our sales.

Finding partners for profit

Letting my chief marketing officer, Daniel Cotlar, and his team run with ideas has been huge. By doing cross promotions with Flowers.com, Cooking.com and OmahaSteaks.com, they helped boost our gross margins per customer visit by 25 percent over the past two years. Someone who buys a certain amount of blinds get discounts from other companies, and vice versa. This turned out to be a really low-cost way of marketing.

My senior leadership team also drove the boat on an idea to partner with big-box retailers — an idea that for years was pretty scary. We worried that if we partnered with big-box stores, offering them technology so their online customers could buy blinds, we would create big new competitors. But whether we helped big-box stores or not, they would eventually get into the blinds business, and the bad economy was a good time to do it. We wound up striking deals with Office Depot, Linens & Things, Window World, Rugs Direct, and Overstock.com. We do all the selling, fulfillment, customer service, technology — everything. It’s been a pretty good deal for us: It’s looking like it might increase sales by 10 percent this year.

Testing, testing, testing

I could not have done this alone. Free-flowing ideas are key. Risk taking is key. It’s all about testing and retesting ideas in small ways and then continually improving them. We set 90-day goals and check in with each other every 30 days. Today, we get more done in 90 days than we did in all of last year. It’s a complete culture shift – one of clear and focused execution. I know it because when I come to work every day, our employees are energized. And we still have jobs. In fact, we’re hiring.
 
Sylvia’s Response:
Thanks Jay for sharing so openly. Your desire to search for meaning is powerful. The fact that it changed the way you do business is a great example of my hypothesis that we can change the world of work as we become more self aware.
 
In “Don’t Bring It to Work” there is a list of the 13 most common difficult behavior patterns in the workplace as well their complimentary positive opposites.
 
As I read about you I saw how the “persecutor” aka bully boss can morph into a visionary. Instead of pointing a finger at people that same finger can be pointed upward toward a vision of better ways to work together. That is exactly what you did. Also the super achiever in you turned into a creative collaborator. And the fruits of your personal search are being felt throughout your company.
 
I would classify you as an “elegant leader” and just want to acknowledge how out of the ashes of your personal tragedy there is a whole company that has benefitted.
Well done!
 

Leadership and The Quality of Life

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

A friend of mine, amazing man, just sold his business for a lot of money, I mean a lot of money. Everyone is happy for him. He smiles when he talks about his pot of gold, his fabulous career, yet the smiles seem somehow vacant, somehow sad.

He invited me for late morning coffee. We sat at a cornet table, far from the maddening crowd in this busy Starbucks and I heard the story under the plastic smile.

He has the money now, and he has what he never had before, the time; all that is good. However, he told me he has been haunted by memories of years gone by and he can’t get these memories out of his mind.

Let me give you the picture. This tall, handsome man is in his early 60’s. He has been healthy and vibrant. Married, divorced, remarried; two grown children, a son and a daughter and two step sons. He has a beautiful wife, beautiful city home and a beautiful vacation home in a beautiful beach community. Got the picture?

Sounds like the model of American success? On one level it is. On another it raises a major question: what do we give up to get?

That is his struggle today. He is haunted by thoughts of how much he missed watching his kids grow up, how driven he was for success. How sad he is about the times that the office became his sanctuary and everything else was on the back burner.

Not sure what he wants to do with the remaining years. His parents and grandparents lived to their late eighties so unless hit by a truck he has many good years ahead. Yet, no preparation for what to do; there is only so much golf you can play.

He asked me to officially coach him, help him find some meaning, some new kind of quality. Most of my coaching time is spent with folks requesting leadership development and executive education. This is a new and important place for me to focus; with the boomer group searching for meaning.

We will be starting a program soon that is the result of my coaching with this man; it has been named “Total Life Connections“. It is based on our highly successful “Total Leadership Connections “program. It addresses the big question of how to give back, how to make a difference, what really matters when pinnacles of success have been reached and we stand there with vacant smiles asking “Now what?”

This program will answer that quality of life question. Call or email for more details.

The Leader of the Future Won’t Even Be There

Monday, May 3rd, 2010

Every so often this internet world provides us with the best information and even better, a new friend. That is the case with Wayne Turmel, a true Renaissance man with a great sense of humor.

I am delighted to have him as a guest blogger and know you will enjoy his perspective about elegant leadership. ~ Sylvia

 

 

We hear a lot of talk about how leadership in the workplace is necessary now more than ever. I don’t know if I believe that- Peter Drucker pointedly noted that the challenges to get the pyramids built weren’t any easier  than the average project manager has to go through- but what I do believe is that leadership is different now than it’s ever been.

Face it, at least the guy at the pyramids was AT the pyramids. Most of us aren’t anywhere near where the work is being done.

This is not hyperbole. If you’re at a level higher than first-level supervisor, you probably have at least one direct report who doesn’t work where you do.  Heck, they might not even work for you, although you have the responsibility for getting the work done.  Welcome to the world of the “virtual team” and the “matrix” organization.

Now, does this mean that leadership has changed? Not really. Think about what most people would agree are 5 qualities of a leader (there are more but not too many people would say these aren’t important):

  1. Leaders are proactive: Leaders see what needs to be done, and get on with the job. But what if you can’t “see” at all? What if the people you work with are in a different office or even the other side of the globe?
  2. Leaders make connections: Leaders do not simply sit on the mountaintop and issue orders that people can’t wait to follow. They have deep, human connections with their people. That’s easy to do if you can see people every day and talk to them regularly. Not so much if they’re in Bucharest and you’ve maybe never even met them.
  3. Leaders listen: If you’re reading this, then you’re already aware that listening involves so much more than simply having ears that work. You have to read body language and listen for the subtle verbal and vocal clues that there may be more to the message than what people are actually saying.  But what if someone’s on the other side of the world and you communicate over the phone or email?
  4. Leaders let people do their jobs but step in when they have to: For so many of us, when we can’t see what’s going on we tend to want to exert more control and become micromanagers. Others take a “they’ll call if they need help” approach and wind up with some unpleasant surprises.
  5. Leaders communicate effectively: Communication is not just the big “state of the union” type speech but the aggregation of all the little things they say and hear. When you communicate through cyberspace the message doesn’t always come through the way you want.

Okay, so in this crazy modern world, has the role of a leader changed? Nope. All this still stands. The challenges are different and the tools at are disposal are largely unfamiliar. So what does this mean for those of us aspiring to be leaders in this new world?

  • Learn and use the tools at your disposal-modern communication tools can be much more powerful than we give them credit for. Most users of webmeetings, for example use less than 25% of their features and potential
  • Be more proactive than ever- Don’t wait for someone to come to you with a problem, but don’t hover either. Check in regularly and really listen and probe to understand what’s happening
  • Lead through influence, rather than authority- Face it, for more and more of us the people we lead and the projects we manage aren’t done by people who you directly manage. We need to get their buy-in and cooperation without having the ability to fire them directly so influence is more important than coercion or threats.
  • Model the communication behaviors you expect others to exhibit If electronic communication tools are the lifeline for your team, then learn to use them. If you don’t, why should they? 

The modern workplace is confusing, bewildering and a little frustrating, but is it really any worse than standing in the hot dusty Egyptian sun?

Work is More than a Job

Wednesday, April 28th, 2010

Where do you spend most of your day? What do you think about much of the time? Why do you do it? Whenever I ask people about their experiences at work I still hear the “It pays the mortgage, it pays for my kid’s college tuition, it pays for my car, vacation, clothes.”

Work is more, so, so much more. Think about it, how you engage at work is how you live your life. It is where you go for some of the best life lessons. All you have to do is pay attention.

Here is an example that was just told to me by a family member. It made me realize that we are always tested and what happens when the mortgage, tuition, material objects, vacations, take a back seat to values and purpose.

David was asked to “fudge” the records so a client would not receive a rebate due him. It was a substantial amount of money. It was not put as crudely as “fudge” the records. It was done in a suave sophisticated manner. Yet, the bottom line was “we keep the money and he does not get it.”

After a sleepless night this young man went to his boss and in a clear, straight forward manner told him he could not participate and asked his boss to reconsider what he had proposed.

Was he nervous? “Internal sweating “was what I was told later. He and his wife had just purchased a new home and boy, was the mortgage ever front and present in his mind.

Yet, he was willing to risk it all by doing what he believed was the right thing. Work, he stated to me, really does show what you are made of, it really does show what you value and what really makes a difference. This was leadership development at its core.

He also told me that he had thought hard and deep about his pattern of being a pleaser, he had been one who would say “yes” at all costs to be liked, to be accepted, and to be the favorite.

He also told me that exploring the positive aspect of the pleaser pattern, the truth teller, had given him the courage to speak up. In “Don’t Bring It to Work” there is a bolded sentence: “Telling the truth is not spilling your guts“. That is the sentence that he took with him into his boss’s office.

Outcome: The boss apologized. He realized what he had suggested smacked of bad judgment. He was in a hurry and had not thought through implications of what he had said.

David had broken the spell of the pleaser and took a stand for what is ethical and right. This story has a happy ending. Many don’t. However, if you keep in mind that your actions and reactions at work are a measure of who you are as an individual you can walk with a proud step and even better, sleep guilt free at night.

Transforming ingrained behavior patterns is key to learning, growing and enjoying your vocation. Work is so much more than merely a job!

And please check out the Wall Street Journal article that talks about “Don’t Bring It to Work” and behavior patterns at play in our present organizations.