
School is In
You can feel school in the air. This is the week to prepare for teachers and we just waved goodbye to a group of amazing students who will be manning and womaning one of the main dorms at the University of Pennsylvania.
These dorm leaders were at the Country Place Retreat for the week end to get to know each other and talk about what is expected of them. They spent much time in the great room discussing campus issues. They played volleyball, had a campfire, and ate really great food.
Nothing out of control happened. No scenes from a reality show showed up. They talked, walked, played, and learned. Not much to write about. So, why am I writing about something that was peaceful and positive.
Different from a group we had here eighteen months ago who were about the same age as these college students. The other group thought the great room was a hockey field, that food fights were acceptable, and cleaning up after them was a sign of weakness. That other group cost us a fortune in repairs and new carpet.
Both groups traveled the hour and a half from Philadelphia. Yet, they were words apart. Both groups also had teachers with them to facilitate the program. So, what was the difference?
I’m going to take an educated guess. Now, group two will remain anonymous; just know they were mentors to students in the city. Maybe the Penn group is more future-oriented, more academic. Is that what could make the difference? That may be one part.
Here is another thought to ponder. Pendulums swing from one side to the other. We have just come out of a time of “mean girls/boys” to the max. We are just finishing with the Lindsay Lohan drama and now that she is in rehab it is really quiet. I think that in these past eighteen months the tide has begun to change.
At some point all the cursing, bad behavior, and silliness of reality television starts to get old. We become hungry to hear about those who are making a positive difference. We become hungry to make a positive difference.
Like this saying: “When wallowing in a vat of hot fudge one cries out for a piece of celery”; maybe, just maybe we are moving into a time where the Snookie’s of the world can drink their tequila and no one will care. Let’s hear it for those who are helping to make this planet a better place and don’t need to be applauded for every move.


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